Mary Doria Russell wrote a terrific book, The Sparrow, that I recommend to my students at Loyola University of Chicago. It is about the first Jesuit settlement in outer space. The Jesuits are known for going where no man has gone before, like Canada, Chicago, and China long ago! In it she makes a passing reference aimed at those of us who go “on and on and on, and on” endlessly and sometimes mindlessly speaking without end. She recommends that these folks join the support group, On and On, Anon! How about you? Do you find that finding the period at the end of a sentence is difficult? Do you find that you nervously jump in when there is some natural silence? Or do you eagerly want to share your advice…medical, travel, relational, or Costo-ish (“Better get over there before they are all gone!”)? The issue here is not to go silent, but rather to tame our natural instinct for connection thinking that more of ‘me’ is what is required here.