Vertical or horizontal plane

Are you operating on a vertical or horizontal plane? Alfred Adler spoke about superiority vs. inferiority—challenging us to consider if anyone truly holds more value than another. When we see everyone as equal, we navigate life and work with a fresh perspective. Let’s aim to build relationships that reflect respect and equality. Watch this video to learn more!

APPROACHING A CONVERSATION ON EVEN GROUND

“At least you’re doing them” was what Tim said when I told him my flip turns were slow and wonky. That was just what I needed to hear from Tim, coach of the Master’s swimming club I just joined. It’s been a long time since I was part of a Master’s team, and those simple words gave me the confidence to keep practicing my flip turns.

Saying the right thing may make a difference. Saying the wrong thing may make a BIG difference. Even when we use the right words, adding filler words can minimize our impact. And don’t forget about tone as it can change everything! Do you have a friend or colleague that always knows what to say, when, and how? Do you wish you had that gift? This series will provide ideas that will allow you to communicate with impact.

Remember the idea of “vertical” versus “horizontal” relationships from our LinkedIn series on Meeting Your KOL for the First Time? We discussed the importance of staying on equal footing with your KOL, as this shapes everything about the conversation—tone, confidence, and body language. The language you use can make a huge difference, supporting an equal relationship that grows positively.

Flipping the script in an interview

“Tell us a little bit about yourself” can feel like a stale interview question, especially when they’ve already read your resume! Next time, try flipping the script: respond with, “Would you like to know something that’s not on my resume?” Then share a personal story that ties back to the job and the skills you've gained from it. This approach grabs their attention, builds engagement, and puts you on an even playing field—making the interview more of a conversation, not just an interrogation. Take control of your narrative!

A lesson in cooperation from a bucksaw

A lesson in cooperation from a bucksaw? You heard that right! Sometimes the simplest tools teach the most powerful lessons. Watch this video to find out more...

Personal Development Planning Tip #11

Following on from our last post:

It is important that you don’t spread yourself across too many goals as your development is important, but you have many other responsibilities across which you must spread your time. These goals are likely not mutually exclusive so developing in your current role will help for future roles. You don’t need to conquer these goals at the same time, parse them out over the course of the year, prioritizing your development accordingly.

Tip: Don’t be a Best Kept Secret! Consider some magic words at meetings: “I liked that idea” helps you encourage with a specific emphasis, “May I tell you what I just learned from you?” is a great way to surprise the other and reinforce for them what worked, “I appreciated…” is another way to help others really understand their influence. You can even use them when you are about to disagree: “I really liked what you said about _____, and I had a slightly different idea, would you like to hear it?” Of course, all three must be done genuinely, never manipulatively.

Your personal development plan is a dynamic document, so adjust if you decide there are more relevant or timely areas for your development. It’s important to remember that while you work with your manager to develop this document, it is your responsibility to execute the plan, after all it is your development. During your one-on-one session with your manager, at least on a quarterly basis, discuss your progress against the goals and ask for feedback.

Share what you liked, learned, and appreciated

Next time you watch a presentation, take a moment to share what you liked, learned, and appreciated about it. It’s a thoughtful way to acknowledge the speaker’s effort and spread positivity.

Let’s build each other up through support and kindness! Watch this video to learn more...

Personal Development Planning Tip #10

Following on from our last post:

The final step in developing your plan is determining what you will do to accomplish your goals. Each goal should follow the SMART format (Specific, Measurable, Actionable, Relevant, Timebound) and should offer you an opportunity to demonstrate your learnings. For example, if you are working on your time management skills you may take a course or read a book. That’s a great starting point, but the next step is to outline 2-3 habits you will implement and track how you do against those. Maybe you have trouble meeting deadlines. What did you learn in class or through the book that will be implemented to overcome this issue? Implement the learning (perhaps calendar reminders) and track how you are progressing against your goal (setting reminders and meeting deadlines). Ask your manager for feedback.

Perhaps you would like to deepen your understanding of competitor products. What materials will you digest to meet this goal? Leading journal clubs for your colleagues will help deepen your understanding of the material and result in discussion that will benefit everyone. Do you have a colleague with a similar goal? If so, meet on a routine schedule to discuss materials you’ve read. Has one of your colleagues worked with a competitor’s product? Can discuss your learnings and gain their perspective? Outline a SMART goal and hold yourself accountable to accomplish what you’ve set out to do.

Perhaps you will be networking to learn more about the cross-functional teams you encounter. What goal will you set for the number of networking sessions you will schedule in a month? Set a goal of writing Thank you notes 100% of the time and within 3 days of your meeting. Measure your progress against this SMART goal.

More in our next post…

Personal Development Planning Tip #9

The last posts in this series have focused on evaluating your strengths and areas for development based on your current role and what you want to do in the future. Once this critical groundwork has been laid, it is time to focus these ideas and write your personal development plan.

Start by aligning with your manager on your learnings to gain their perspective and begin narrowing down the list to two to three areas you want to focus on. Looking back over the approach outlined in Tip 1 in this series, when you evaluated yourself against the competencies required for your role, what skill did you uncover that could use some polishing? I believe one goal should be focused on optimizing yourself in your current role, even if you have been in your role for many years. This could include stretching your skills in a way you have not been required to do in previous years. Remember the company needs you to deliver in a certain role and you can always add to your level of competency. If you are new to your role, your PDP may focus solely on the competencies of your current role to ensure you are delivering value and having impact.

The next goal should be focused on optimizing yourself. This could be based on what you are currently doing or what you want to do in the future. This could be a skill such as active listening, negotiating, or communicating but could also be deepening your understanding of the science you speak to or how you present that science to various audiences. Perhaps deepening your understanding of strategy will be a learning opportunity (and valuable in all roles).

The last goal maybe focused on what you want to do next. Is there a way to support your current team by developing a skill that will aid in your learning or demonstrate your readiness for the next role? Your manager will likely have some ideas and opportunities to which you could align. Perhaps this entails deepening your connections to those in the role you hope to secure or even the manager of that team. Is there an opportunity to contribute while increasing exposure to their work?

More in our next post…

Performance

One of my clients recently mentioned to me that they were striving in their coursework not only for information, not only for behavior change, but also for ‘performance-based’ courses. This may not be new to you, but to me, it represented an important word shift: knowledge, behavior, and performance.

My graduate students read to understand, we demonstrate to isolate useful behaviors, and we practice to get so good that our performance is second nature. Actors call it ‘muscle memory.’ A physician at Illinois’ NorthShore University Health System, referring to their trauma surgeons, said they had “such great instincts” honed over a career.

Perhaps in those times when you said the right thing at the right time, in the right way—even you were surprised by the outcome. Perhaps that goes beyond what you know, beyond how you behaved, and the ‘performance’ was the integration of it all.

Behavior change is certainly good, but performance—well, that may be something different and better altogether.

Personal Development Planning Tip #8

Following on from our last post:

Put time on your calendar to network every week, even if it is just 30 minutes. Be prepared with questions related to their role and your interests. Why did you set up time with them specifically? What about their function sparked your interest? How do they collaborate across the organization? What are their biggest challenges / accomplishments? What are the functional and individual goals? How do they spend their time day-to-day? Share your interests and what you desire in a role.

Send a note of thanks following the meeting, including a specific take-away from the meeting. This is a critical part of networking that is often overlooked. People have given you their time and that should be acknowledged. Set yourself apart by remembering this final detail.

Tip: Never dismiss a contact based on their academic training, positions, or how they look to you. Turn on your best human relations skills so that you can find the wisdom they have. As an MSL, the first person you may meet is at the reception desk at the HCPs office. That is the person that can make room for us on the schedule, get us through on the phone, and can likely get faster results than a cold email! There is no such thing as an insignificant job or person. Every person is a book, just turn the next page to discover more about them… And about you.

Each of these meetings will provide value and offer a great opportunity to connect with people across your organization. A picture will start to develop about roles that may fit your interests. Even if a role or functional area turns out not to align with your goals, you will have made important connections in the company.

What are you like as an audience member?

We often critique presenters, but what about the audience? Next time you're in the audience, consider this: How can you show up fully? Your engagement, attention, and energy are just as important to the success of the experience. Watch this video to learn more and let me know what you think!

Personal Development Planning Tip #7

In our last post, we focused on how to leverage your personal development plan (PDP) when you’ve already identified what role you are targeting. If you are unclear about what you want to do next, no worries! You can tailor one of the goals in your PDP to help you determine what direction you may or may not want to go.

We all enjoy some of our job responsibilities more than others. Perhaps you’re ready to spend less time on the road and more time at home but still want to stay close to the science? Or perhaps you enjoy working with pipeline molecules more than commercially available products? Maybe working on clinical trials is more your speed? Take time to reflect on the aspects of your role (or pervious roles) that you truly enjoy or areas in which you would like to grow your expertise.

Do you know what opportunities within your company that align with your likes/dislikes? If not, this is an opportune time to ramp up your networking skills and learn about the possibilities.  Who have you met in the company that does something interesting that you believe aligns with your interests? Set up a 30-minute coffee (or virtual coffee) to learn more about the details of their role. You may find it is not what you thought it would be, or you may learn it’s just what you want to do… Regardless, you will learn something. I guarantee they will help you make other connections with colleagues that would be happy to discuss their role with you. Connect via LinkedIn. Let the networking begin!

More in our next post…

Deep down, we are more alike than we might think

A core teaching of Adlerian psychology (from Alfred Adler, 1870-1937) emphasizes that we are all "social equals" and deserve respect. This does not mean we are identical, but rather that despite our differences, we share a common humanity and dignity. Deep down, we are more alike than we might think.

I once had a graduate student who consistently arrived late to class. When I asked him about it, he explained, "Oh, Mr. O'Connor, I get stuck talking to a homeless guy down the street." My immediate response, which I now regret, was, "You talk to homeless people?" His reply has stayed with me: "You know, I think you and I are maybe one life event away from being in his shoes." This made me realize the importance of seeing people for who they are, beyond their circumstances. Indeed, we are all more similar than we imagine.

A colleague, Char Wenc, once led a class for physician leaders where she asked them to pair up and take turns saying, "I'll bet we have ____ in common" or "I like ____, how about you?" Within minutes, most pairs discovered they had at least seven things in common, often more. We can find deep connections if we just take the time to ask, listen, and engage.

Personal Development Planning Tip #6

Following on from our previous post:

We all live in our own reality. We really did look in the mirror today and said, “Yes!” Then out on the street we do wonder if some of these folks had a mirror! Consider of course your manager’s feedback, but also as we’ve recommended in the past don’t overlook your neighbor’s wisdom, how are things done where they work, how do they respond?

Maybe the next role requires you to be involved with strategy development. Talk with your manager to see how you can get involved in the development of the MSL strategy for the upcoming year. Your perspective as a current MSL will provide value in the process and allow you to better understand the departments process for building strategy including aligning with the company’s goals, cross-functional team alignment, prioritization, and budgeting. I suspect your manager would appreciate your support!

Imagine yourself in an interview, outlining how you developed your PDP in alignment with the required competencies for the role, and sharing examples of how you executed your plan. You’ll certainly impress the hiring manager with your thoughtful and informed approach.

It’s important to acknowledge that many people thrive in their current role and are not interested in changing career paths. That is OK (great, actually, as your manager can count on you and your experience as an anchor for the team) and will allow you to focus your development in other areas, including stretching yourself in your current role. Head back to the previous tip and identify those areas!

Your Presentation Introduction

Next time you're giving a presentation, write your introduction for someone else to read—keep it short! And don't forget to include a fun fact about yourself at the end to make the audience smile. It’s a great way to set the tone and connect with your listeners right from the start! Watch this video to learn more...

Personal Development Planning Tip #5

In our last posts on this topic, we discussed the competencies needed for your role as an MSL and the steps to assess yourself against these skills and behaviors. This post will focus on how to leverage your personal development plan (PDP) to help you prepare for your next step in your career journey, once you’ve identified what role you are targeting. If you don’t know what you want to do next, no worries! We’ll cover that in our next posts.

Your PDP is a great way to gain skills necessary for that next role while providing broader value in your current role. Is that really possible? Absolutely!

The first step is to know what competencies are required for that next role. Do you have a competency model for that role? Great, that’s going to give you a specific path forward. If not, no worries, look at the job description for the role and develop a list of competencies you think are needed. Talk with people in the role (and/or their managers) to adjust and expand this list, as well as to validate what you believe to be the necessary skills and behaviors for success. Prioritize the list so you can focus on your development. This is an ideal time to use your networking skills to learn more about the role and gain feedback about areas in which you could develop.

Assess yourself against each skill and behavior on the list of competencies for this role. Certainly, some of your current skills will transfer nicely to this next role but there will be others to which you need to gain exposure. Going down the list of competencies, are you at the learning stage, the developing stage, or have you mastered the skill? Have your manager make the same assessment. How do these compare?

It is likely that you will identify areas that you need to gain experience that could provide value to your manager. Let’s say you are interested in a Field Director role where you will have responsibilities to hire and manage people. Maybe you haven’t been involved with interviewing candidates before, so you want to gain experience since this is one competency of a manager. Collaborate with your manager (or other managers) to see if you can get involved with the interview process. This would allow you to gain insights into the hiring process, the company’s interviewing tools (such as behavioral interview questions), help develop the cross-functional list of interviewers, etc. You’re gaining insights and skills while assisting the manager to fill a role.

More in our next post…

Mission-Moment-Mess

Steve Lowell and Jayne Lowell from Canada introduced me to three very useful words: Mission-Moment-Mess.

I sometimes use them for personal reflection, sometimes to frame a speech or a coaching call, often a set of choices for someone taking my presentation skills class, and always as a reminder that words provoke the story. Can you imagine giving a presentation on any of those three words and not launch into a story, an example, a person, or an interaction?

Even in ordinary conversation, we can probe gently with questions like, “What was that moment like for you?” or “What do you think drives your efforts (mission)?” or “That sounds like it was quite a mess! How’d you get out of it?” (or better yet, “What did you learn from that?”).

As I reflect on my previous day, I’ve found it helpful to just briefly, always non-judgmentally, and honestly ask myself, “How did I act on my mission? What was that special moment? And whew, how’d I get out of that mess (or what did I learn if I’m not out yet!)?” Of course, at the same time, I’m thankful for people like Steve and Jayne who remind me of these reflections with their words.

Personal Development Planning Tip #4

Following on from our previous post:

As you assess yourself against each skill and behavior on the list of competencies for your role, are you at the learning stage, the developing stage, or have you mastered it? Be honest with yourself and consider the feedback you’ve reviewed in preparation for this exercise. Have your manager independently make the same assessment of your skills and behaviors. How do these assessments compare? Use this comparison for an honest discussion with your manager about areas for growth and areas at which you excel, particularly if there is misalignment. This exercise is valuable if you are new to your role or if you are a seasoned MSL.

Tip: Capability Profiles (CP) is a competency model you can use to assess for others as well as a help for you to determine why we really are hired. A resume tells what we have done, a capabilities profile says what we can do, which is why you are really being hired anyway. Every interviewer has one thought on their mind, “Can you help me solve my problem?” Your resume is your history, your CP foretells your value. (If you’d like a copy of a CP outline let us know.)

Congratulations, you have just identified areas for development in your current role! In upcoming posts, we will talk more about what to do with this information and how to weave this into your personal development plan.

Add depth to your communication

It's the little things that can add depth to your communication. Did you know that understanding the Latin roots of words can change how you perceive and use them? Check out this video to learn more and discover how language can help you communicate with more meaning.

Personal Development Planning Tip #3

In the movie Casablanca, Rick looks at Ilsa and says, “Who are you really, and what were you before? What did you do and what did you think, huh?” Every useful development plan begins with who you are. And make sure that you know who you are instead of defining yourself by someone else’s standards.

In our last posts on this topic, we discussed different ways to approach the construction of your personal development plan (PDP) as you consider where you are and where you want to be in your career.  This post will focus on how you are performing in your current role.

Based on the feedback you’ve reviewed (a few of the places to look were outlined in the previous posts), what have you learned about how you are executing the responsibilities of your current job? Have you determined areas at which you are excelling and other areas that could be optimized? This is a great start!

Competency models are valuable tools that drill down on the many skills associated with a specific role and help you evaluate your ability to do those skills and behaviors in a successful and efficient way. If you don’t have these at your company, review your job description, or work with your manager to drill down on the various skills expected of you in your current position, considering several aspects of each responsibility. This list of competencies will be long and detailed covering the many aspects of the role from communication to presentations to scientific knowledge based. For example, scientific knowledge skills may include knowledge of product, disease, competitors, and your ability to communicate this information to different audiences such as KOLs, peers, nursing staff, and sales. List each of these as a separate competency (since they are!) and you will see the list of competencies for your role grow. If you already have a competency model, you’ve got the keys to success already outlined for you.

More in our next post…