Help them figure out their unarticulated question

I regularly see posts about 'staying curious' on social media. How often do you find that others are curious about you, or do they instead seem to want you to be curious about them? So let's be curious and help them figure out their unarticulated question.

I wonder if so many of us look to the presenter, homilist, teacher, boss, meeting planner for what we ought find within ourselves. That special question that we could articulate, and even let them know what we want from them instead of wishing and hoping. I write to my priest when his words have really moved me. I think he needs to hear it because Catholics tend to thank him or say nice things about his homilies, but I want him to know WHAT he said that moved me and why. I need to articulate first for myself and secondly for him.

Same with my mentors and teachers and customers and clients…I want to articulate for them what they may not know about themselves…what they did or said that moved me. I do it first for me. Then for them. How about you?